I tried to think about a more captivating topic to grab your attention. If that didn't quite do it, well, let's proceed as is, lol.

 

Heeeey %Name% ! How are youuuuu?

 

Don’t tell me you haven’t caught the seasonal ‘most wonderful time of the year’ bug yet?

 

There’s no other time in the earthly calendar that the entire universe converges in the energy of joy, goodwill, and cheer.

 

It may not look like it (and it may) but this is the season you’ve been waiting for.

 

Stop playing and get with the program!

 

Rejoice, again I say, rejoice! ☺️ (*inserts an organ sound)

 

This past week, the Mr and I celebrated our 20th wedding anniversary. I know, right? 

Even I've been looking at that number and thinking it's time to be admitted to the marriage counselor's hall of fame because... well, you know, lol.

 

Here's the thing, I don't talk much about marriage normally because I believe it's such a personal journey. 

But right now, I want to share some thoughts on how to navigate relationships with you.

 

Firstly, every relationship must be defined. Who are you to me, and who am I to you? This guides how we relate to each other.

 

What do you know about yourself, and how is that valuable to others?

 

I always say you can't operate at your best in any relationship without high levels of self-discovery, self-regulation, and personal growth.

 Every day, bring yourself to account--how did I do today? What could I have done better? What worked and what didn't? What do I need to start, stop, or continue?

 

This is a simple thing you can do with your thoughts as you reminisce on something noteworthy from the day.

You'll always be at the center of your life, so pay attention to You.

The better you feel about yourself, the more at peace you are with yourself, and the better you'll be at relating to others.

 

Think of people as gifts given to you on your journey to sharpen, instruct, and advance. Pretty much like a navigation device.

 

Evil isn't the original intent for relationships, but human choice can change those dynamics. Our ability to make choices makes us the most powerful species on Earth.

 

Therefore, heighten your sensitivity to relationships, choices, and decisions.

  

How? By focusing on self and being conscious of your inner voice and its tone. 

Have you ever met someone for the first time and something about them sparkled, or another who made no impression, or one who put you off for no tangible reason? 

Those are examples of the tonality of your inner voice, sending signals to your consciousness about something you need to interpret.

 

Many of us shrug things off in the name of – must be my imagination or it’s never that deep.

 

Unfortunately, it is.

 

Anyone can be permitted to speak to you but the people you allow into your heart and mind will determine the way you think and make choices

 

These choices will form the foundation of your experiences in this life.

 

And, you have only one chance at it.

 

When we were little, we behaved like children. Permitting everything, unconscious of influences and peeves we picked up, playing in muddy waters, kissing and making up immediately without boundaries.

 

But maturity calls us to higher standards.

 

Every interaction with another will bring you lessons. Be mindful of which is for the present moment and which you are to carry with you as you journey along.

 

In matters of the heart, choose kindness and adaptability. In time, collaboration will bring joy and abundance.

 

We decided to document this one because it’s special in many ways. Share our joy here https://www.instagram.com/p/C0y3v_po2lq/?igshid=YzZhZTZiNWI3Nw==

 

Here’s wishing you days of good health, soundness of mind and laughter .

 

Be joyful %Name% so you can lead yourself to your best days.

 

Everything good is meant for you.

 

Receive it.

P.s

Yes, I want to know your thoughts as always so, send me a reply.

 

But, you’re going to see this banner till 2024.

 

As the year comes to an end, I’m re-assessing and preparing to unwind, renew and reset.

 

Join me in Zanzibar- Jan 29-Feb 4 2024 for the adventure into self you didn’t know you needed.

 

It’s time to advance.

 

Click here – https://yetundebernard.com/fyns-2024/